Diabetes: Testing frequency

I have early onset diabetes and was told to test twice a day, once fasting in the a.m. and 1 1/2 to 2 hours after lunch or dinner. I was told to come back in 6 months.
After 8 weeks of meticulous sticking I decided to call the dr and ask if it was REALLY necessary for me to check so often. She said I didn't and now has me checking every morning fasting and once a week after a meal.